PSA, Or the Time I Sort Of Almost Drowned
I have seen a few references to it, and maybe you've already seen it too, but there is an interesting article called Drowning Doesn't Look Like Drowning that I wanted to share here.
As the title implies, the article is about how to recognize drowning and how, when someone is drowning, it doesn't look like we're used to seeing it in the movies. People don't thrash around and call for help. This was particularly interesting to me because I had a scary brush with drowning when I was a kid. To preface, my grandparents had a pool and we used to go swimming there whenever we could. When I was maybe five years old, my grandma took me in the pool and was holding me. The pool had a shallow end and a deep end, and all around the deeper portion of the pool, there was a three-foot deep ledge that had a slippery, steep decline. We sort of walked around the ledge while she held me and kept saying things like, "Look, you're swimming!" What my five-year-old brain didn't realize was that I wasn't swimming.
I don't remember the exact details of whether when I came close to drowning was later that day or a different day or what, but I remember that I had my swimsuit on, and I feel like only my grandma and Uncle Howard were there. I recall my grandma went inside and my uncle was dozing in a lawn chair. I wanted to show off for my uncle that I had learned to swim, so I remember saying something like, "Uncle Howie, watch me swim!" And then I stepped down the ladder, into the pool, started moving my arms, and then before I knew it, my head was underwater and I felt as if I couldn't move. I don't know how long I was under there—I doubt it was long at all—but I remember my eyes were open and my head was pointed up toward the sky. I also remember feeling pretty pissed that I didn't actually know how to swim, and very scared. I then remember seeing a blurry figure look over the edge of the pool, and then my uncle grabbed me and pulled me out. It's one of those moments of my life that I will forget about for a while and then remember and play it over and over. My uncle will recount seeing my "big, blue eyes" looking at him from under the water and laugh, but it freaks me out! I always wondered why I didn't thrash around or try to call for help, but after reading this article, I understand that, physiologically, I did exactly what people do when they drown.
I thought this article was very interesting and an excellent reminder, particularly for the time of year and the kind of weather we've been having. If I were to add one more thing, regarding children, I would just stress that when you "swim" with them and they don't yet know now to swim, do not ever imply that they are actually swimming. Put some fear in those children! (Kidding, mostly.)
After recounting this, I think I know why I don't like swimming that much. I'm sure it has nothing to do with the fact that swimming requires wearing a bathing suit in front of people...
Take care, peoples.
Fran


Comments
#1 Very scarey stuff! We have a
Very scarey stuff! We have a pool at our house and my children drowning is my #1 fear. It so scarey how fast (and quietlly) it can happen. Thx for the very important reminder.
PS love the new picture on the top left!
#2 Taryn - You already have
Taryn - You already have Ollie in swim classes. It'll be fine.
Amber - I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine. Unfortunately it's not all that uncommon. It's so smart that you have Emily in swimming lessons. We need to get on that...
#3 Great, I just bought a house
Great, I just bought a house with a pool...
#4 Joe and I have both lost a
Joe and I have both lost a child close to us by drowning and as such already have Emily in swimming classes even though she is just over a year old. Obviously we know she won't know how to swim at the end of it, but if we do it every year we can, we are hoping she will be much better able to support herself in a scary situation (although we plan on never letting one of those happen).
#5 death trap hotel
Wow, that hotel sounds like something out of a Final Destination movie! Yikes. It's good we all mostly get out of those situations unscathed. Someday I'll bring myself to talk about the hot pepper juice incident wherein I almost lost my vision in one eye.
#6 Safety, a topic close to my heart.
My Sister Erika almost drowned in a swimming pool at Myrtle Beach. She was jumping up and down in the shallow end and within seconds, accidentally slipped into the deep end. Thankfully, my Dad was there to dive in and save her. I still remember the look of panic on her face when she realized she was in trouble.
Interestingly, years later... I choked on a piece of apple while dangling my feet into the hot tub of the same hotel. And again, my Dad to the rescue!
* why did we always stay at the death trap of a hotel?!
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